It is the lack of surrender that causes incompatibility.
When we are unjust to another, we are being violent to that person. Being violent to the person, we are stealing the peace of that person. What greater theft can there be than stealing someone’s peace?
By finding fault, it is not the fault of the other person, it is you. You are at fault: therefore you see a fault. We project ourselves upon others because we cannot handle ourselves by ourselves.
It would be good to see our faults in others and then improve ourselves, but we do not do it.
Love has its various levels, ranging from utter simplicity to a super level. As householders, it is part of our dharma to elevate the initial physical, mental, mundane attraction and lead it gently to a spiritual attraction.
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